In most of the things that we go through it often feels like we are alone in our experiences. Talking to the people around you may help and you feel much better about letting it all out.

Much better would be to talk to someone who has at least been through an experience like yours rather than talk with just anyone. It is so easy for people who have shared similar experiences to establish a friendship…

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People who have shared a similar experience to you understand your situation much better and you can easily relate to them. I always feel cheated when I share my problems with someone who has no idea what its like being in my situation and all they can tell me is ‘don’t worry things will be fine.’

Besides giving you words of encouragement someone who has been through what you’ve been through will give you practical advice…

I recall one time after learning this concept I approached a friend of mine in a similar position as me for a shoulder to cry on. believe it or not it was more than tea that we ended up sharing, we managed a few good laughs and I wasn’t so worried anymore.

Psychologists, counseling and all that is all very professional I agree but sometimes you just need something real, something that you can relate too. You need to hear things that are not taken from a manual or talk to someone who is not following a set of guidelines and rules. everyday words coming from a genuine person can be more uplifting than words from a text book.

You regain your focus and are able to think positively about your situation. The problem may still be there but now you have solution, a direction that you can take and be able to move on.You will be in a position to appreciate that even the most painful experiences can be lived through.

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